Years of playing small, your self-esteem is constantly challenged. You have been labeled as shy good girl, socially awkward, introvert, wallflower or loner. For years of putting yourself in a box, you think your self-worth means NOTHING.
You work in a job that does not inspire you because you think you are smart enough. You hide behind your shadows afraid to be seen or even voice your opinion for fear of being judged. There's usually a past experience or a subconscious memory or a childhood moment that has contribute you to play small and hid away from your desires.